“It made me think of you”
“I love that you care so much”
“How are you actually doing?”
“I trust you so much”
“Thank you for helping me understand”
“It wasn’t the same without you there”
“I really need to talk to someone”
“I’m bringing you a tea”
“Yes, I did get home safe”
“I’ll see you soon”
“You always know how to cheer me up”
“Can I be honest with you?”
“I care about you”
“What are you thinking about?”
“Slow down, it’s ok”
“I know you, and you need to sleep now”
“Please eat something right now”
“You make me feel so much”
“I love how passionate you are”
“I miss you”
“I love the way you love me”
“You’re such a peacekeeper”
“I’ve noticed you”
“Don’t change, ever”
“Your heart is beautiful”
All of these are accurate. Especially the thing about sleep LOL
What I noticed and observed about them: (3 FEMALES & 3 MALES)
Almost all of the ENFJs I know are extremely approachable and friendly. They’re like a breath of fresh air. Their vibes are just so nice and infectious.
However, two of the ENFJ females I know mayseem snobbish at first–probably due to their second dominant function; Ni (which causes them to overthink and not be aware of their face). I highly doubt they mean it though–their caring actions say otherwise, anyway.
When you converse with them, you’ll notice that they have this glow in their face that just makes you want to keep talking. They have the ability to make people feel comfortable and special.
They mold themselves as they talk to people. They know what the other person is into or what the other person is going through–and they will use their interpersonal skills to know exactly what to talk about. And how to act. They are the ultimate chameleons.
They hold onto what they feel is right and wrong,and will feel insulted/disgusted if they see other people not behaving in a way that they don’t believe in–but will keep it to themselves to avoid conflict (unless they are the more assertive ENFJs).
Almost all of the ones I know are musically-inclined and love using their music abilities to gather people together and jam with them; or well, to impress their crushes.
The ENFJ guys I know are the “larger-than-life” type of guys. They really stand out because of their lively, childish, yet determined personality.
Most of the ENFJs I know are charismatic. When they talk, people quiet down because they know that they have something meaningful to say. Or derpy. There is no in-between.
These are the peacemakers. Sure, they have strong opinions– but they’re mostly focused on what’s good for everyone. They don’t like taking sides because they want to be fair; and want to take the time to understand both.
Some of the ENFJs I know don’t really know themselves. They aren’t the most introspective individuals since they focus more on others–so sometimes this may lead to them not knowing much about what they truly like. I remember one of my ENFJ friends was asked what her favorite music genre was by an acquaintance– and she didn’t know how to answer; like she was afraid that she’d end up saying the wrong genre.
They actually rant a lot to their close friends about how they truly feel about certain people–but when they are faced with the people they were ranting about–they act as if they hadn’t said anything bad about them behind their back…and what more is that they act like they’re best friends with them. Their chameleon skills are impressive.
They aren’t as organized as ESFJs, but they have their own way of being organized. They’re just much more chill than ESFJs. And forgetful.
Seeing them in action is so entertaining. Organizing events, talking to people, helping people, reciting in class. It’s like they were born to make the world a much easier place.
Some of the ENFJs I know had a difficult time getting out of toxic relationships. They wouldn’t give up on their significant other even if the bad outweighed the good in the relationship. They really dofocus on the good of people.
Some of the ENFJs I know could be mistaken for beingflirty because they don’t ever turn off their charm (even when they’re uninterested). And this could lead the trouble if they aren’t single.
ENFJs are softies at heart. I swear, they have a lot of loveto share. Even if they don’t show it–you’ll notice it eventually. They love romantic movies! (Even the guys) Such a giveaway.
Well, what do you guys think? Agree or disagree? :)
Congratulations! You have been chosen by an ENFJ to be an
important person in their life. Your ENFJ comes in color coordinated and
aesthetically pleasing packaging perfectly suited to both your and their needs.
Although your ENFJ does not need to be cared for in the traditional sense, here
are a few tips to ensure the most harmonious interactions with your newfound
extroverted idealist.
Your ENFJ comes with:
Ten (10) color coordinated outfits
Twelve (12) small fluffy animals of your ENFJ’s
preference
One (1) large box tea assortment
One (1) soapbox for speechmaking purposes
One (1) electronic device for constant
communication with others
One (1) newspaper subscription (most likely
electronic) for staying up-to-date on current events and world affairs
Two (2) bookshelves filled with various types of
literature
One (1) etiquette manual. Your ENFJ has never
read it, nor have they ever felt the need to, but it has been included for your
benefit.
One (1) burning life purpose that will Make the
World a Better Place.
Custom upgrades: Your ENFJ will have some sort
of creative hobby. Musical instruments, microphones, art implements, writing
implements, and/or athletic equipment may also be included.
Software
Your ENFJ comes preprogrammed with the following traits;
Fe: Your ENFJ has
an innate sense of how interpersonal affairs function and how one should
navigate them. Keenly concerned with the state of others, both loved ones and
humanity as a whole, your ENFJ strives to do what is best for others and
maintain peace in their relationships. Your ENFJ will motivate, encourage, compliment,
support, and comfort other people. Open communication is very important to your
ENFJ, and trust is paramount.
Ni: Not only does
your ENFJ care immensely about others, but they know exactly how to improve
their lives. ENFJ units come with a preinstalled “life purpose” program that
presses upon them a deep burden to improve the state of the world in some way
that is uniquely suited to their individual talents and abilities. Usually,
this improvement can be directly connected to other people in some way. Do not
try to argue the life purpose with your ENFJ. They have reflected upon it
deeply and are certain that this is in fact what they want to do with their
lives.
Se: Your ENFJ is
aware of the world around them and its various sensory details. They are action-oriented
and will take initiative to implement their plans for a better future.
Generally, they will have good reflexes and appreciate pleasant and organizes
surroundings. Decent at multitasking. Sometimes they will take too much upon
themselves, which can lead to burnout.
Ti: This function
acts as a filter for Fe and ensures that your ENFJ’s words and actions are
logically consistent, accurate, and appropriate. Depending on the particular
ENFJ that has chosen you, the Ti filter may function properly to balance Fe, or
it may malfunction and either be overly manifested in critical attitudes or be
entirely absent and lead to irrational behavior.
Getting Started
1. Activate electronic device and place in your
ENFJ’s hand.
2. Make your ENFJ a cup of tea (preferably herbal).
3. Wait for the electronic device to register
attempted communication from others.
4. Allow your ENFJ to drink tea and communicate
with others until fully charged.
5. If step 4 does not work, initiate a form of
physical contact, such as hugging or cuddling, with your ENFJ.
6. If for some reason your ENFJ is averse to
physical contact, repeat step 4 but with the small fluffy animals arranged
around them.
Modes
Friend Mode
(default): Your ENFJ will want to befriend everyone they encounter. They
will ask thoughtful and personalized questions to get to know the other person
and want to establish a positive relationship with them.
Mom Mode (default):
Your ENFJ is very concerned about others
and whether or not they are taking care of themselves. Can often be found
inquiring whether others have eaten, hydrated, slept enough, finished that
thing they were procrastinating, are wearing weather appropriate clothing, have
taken relevant medications, etc. Your ENFJ will do this regardless of whether
the other person is younger or old enough to be their own mother.
Teacher Mode
(default): Your ENFJ enjoys learning about the world, and sharing that
knowledge even more so. They can often be found recounting an interesting
article they read the other day or a cool discovery in a field that they like. Can
be triggered by the phrase “I don’t understand…”. Your ENFJ will explain things
in a way that you will understand. ENFJs are also prone to turning a difficult
situation into a Teaching Moment.
Counselor Mode:
Activated when someone is going through a difficult situation. Self-taught
psychologists, ENFJ units innately understand how people work and will
generally know how to be more helpful. Your ENFJ will validate and affirm the
hurting individual and usually leave them feeling better. Warning: your ENFJ
may give advice more than is necessary if relying too heavily on Fe and not
enough on Ni.
Superhero Mode:
Activated under stress. ENFJs have a habit of taking on more than they can
carry, and it eventually takes a toll. Your ENFJ will insist that they are fine.
Their eyes will glaze over and twitch if you question them about their
activities. Asking them how they plan to sustain this schedule will probably
induce tears. Beware. Your ENFJ has entered full delusion.
Pseudo-Introvert
Mode: Activated under severe stress. Your ENFJ has become so overwhelmed
that they are shutting down. Characterized by refusal to socialize, a marked
reduction in activities, and unusual silence in their presence. Symptoms also
include grumpiness, calmness, an insistence that they are “just tired” or that “it’s
been a long week”, and increased need for sleep. Seek help for your ENFJ if
they start to claim that they don’t need others.
Manipulative Dictator
Mode: If your ENFJ gains pleasure from controlling others or getting them
to do things according to their will which others may not have chosen on their
own, they are unhealthy. Perform a diagnostic check to ensure that all
functions are in working order. Detoxification of Fe or Ni may be necessary.
Relationships with
Other Units
NF: The easiest
for your ENFJ to communicate with due to their naturally flowing and
symbol-laden speech. Your ENFJ will appreciate their idealism and encourage
them to follow their dreams.
NT: Slightly more
challenging due to the strict rationalism present in NTs, but can get along on
a conceptual basis if their ideas are complementary. Your ENFJ secretly admires
NTs but knows that they can never admit it to one.
SJ: Can be somewhat
difficult to communicate with due to the concrete and direct style these types
employ, but your ENFJ will love them all the same and appreciate their loyalty.
SP: Your ENFJ
will be fascinated by SPs and how they can do things so easily, and will want
to hang out with them all the time. Do not let the SPs talk your ENFJ into skydiving.
They’ll claim they can handle it until they start screaming halfway out of the
plane.
Feeding
Your ENFJ will claim that they have transcended basic human
needs such as food. Your ENFJ is a liar
who will get very cranky if they forget to eat. A glazed over expression,
extended silence, or general withdrawnness can often be attributed to hunger.
Feed regularly. Chocolate non-optional.
Grooming
ENFJs are generally fastidious about personal hygiene and
have established a personal style of clothing/accessories/makeup. May
occasionally leave the house without an accessory or mismatched shoes. If they
are busy, help them by organizing the outfit they have chosen and ensuring that
every component is there.
Sleeping
Your ENFJ will eschew sleep, as it limits time that could be
spent socializing and doing things.
Remind your ENFJ what happened the last time they slept less than 6 hours and
that sleeping now will help them function better tomorrow.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is my ENFJ really
that excited?
Generally, yes. ENFJs look for the bright side in every
situation, and tend to genuinely enjoy the things they claim to enjoy. Lack of affinity
for something will be signaled by a neutral yet diplomatic statement.
Does my ENFJ actually like me if they claim to love
everyone?
You bet. ENFJs are very particular about being authentic in
their remarks, and will tend to give praise specifically tailored to an individual.
They will not tell you you’re a great athlete if you’re not. That being said, ENFJs
look for the good in everyone and usually manage to find it. So yes, they do
love everyone.
But if my ENFJ lives to care for others, they surely must
not need care?
That’s where you’re wrong. Although ENFJs derive the most
pleasure from caring for others, they need affirmation and appreciation to keep
going and feel like their efforts aren’t in vain. Be sure to regularly tell
your ENFJ how much you appreciate what they do for you. You might find yourself
with a pleasant surprise if you do.
My ENFJ isn’t being very nice.
ENFJs are emotional, caring beings. They are not always
nice. They try to be, but sometimes they snap. It’s only because they’ve been
trying to keep it inside. Encourage your ENFJ to talk about negative feelings
openly (this may take some persuasion, as ENFJs like to ignore negative
feelings and pretend they don’t exist) to prevent such an explosion.
Kim Taehyung as Han Sung in Hwarang: The Beginning (source)
The drama is scheduled to air in the second half of the
year and the story takes place during the Silla dynasty. V will portray
the role of Han Sung who is the grandson of Suk Hyun Jae who goes up
against the Silla imperial family.
V’s character Han Sung is a man of kind and friendly
nature. He pursues peace and harmony among the people. However, he is
also a character who acts to ignite the conflict between friendships and
families.
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Sunday, July 10th, 2016 at The Novo (formerly known as Club Nokia)
Capacity: 2,300 seats
*Note: Ticket information have not been released yet but they should be up after dates, cities and venue information have been released. For more comments or questions, please contact the host: SubKulture Entertainment.
Also, check out their website as well and be sure to subscribe if you’re up for exclusive events and weekly recaps! Also, don’t miss out on their photos and videos, giveaways, announcements and more! Have a nice day guys! (: